“Not tonight dear, I feel too fat”

Do you avoid or not enjoy having sex with your partner because you feel overweight and lack confidence in the size and shape of your body?

Do you end a new relationship before it’s even got started because you worry about what a new lover would think of your body once your clothes came off?

Are you waiting until you have lost some weight/toned up your wobbly bits/conquered your cellulite before you feel you can really let go and enjoy being sexy?

Imagine feeling sexy and confident whatever your size or shape.

Imagine celebrating what you see in the mirror instead of ignoring, criticising or hating it.

Imagine allowing yourself to be the hot, juicy, sensual woman you were born to be.

My mission is to help women feel sexy at any size!

I’ve spent too many years, seeing too many women (myself included in my ‘before’ phase) not enjoying their bodies. I’ve heard women calling themselves (and others) cruel names based purely on their physical appearance. I’ve watched women turn away from being sexual because they felt they weren’t slim/sexy/young/bendy/feminine/wild/attractive/*insert your own*…  enough.

How many of us recite the “I am not enough” mantra?

Or maybe you believe you are too much? Do you think you are ‘too much to handle’?  Do you feel you are ‘too demanding’?  Do you worry you take ‘too long’? Are you ‘too shy’? Or simply ‘too big’?

Whether you feel you are not enough or too much (it’s usually both) the truth is:

YOU ARE ENOUGH.

That’s it. No room for doubt. You don’t need to be any more or any less of who or what you already are.

The only thing you have to do is be YOU.

The REAL YOU is passionate, fun, brave, sensual, vibrant, loving, sexy and confident!

But maybe you’ve forgotten.

Or maybe you’ve been told differently – and believed whoever told you.

Or maybe, when you reflect on your experiences so far, you just can’t see it. “Where is this passionate, fun, brave, sensual, vibrant, loving, sexy and confident woman?” you ask.

Whether you’ve had a taste of it before or not, I want you to feast on a banquet of sexy body confidence!

I want YOU to enjoy your body, and to enjoy feeling and being sexy, whatever your size or shape.

I want YOU to have sexy body confidence, to feel sexy and sensual, and to get pleasure from sex – whether with a partner or by yourself. (I’m a big fan of self-pleasuring or, as Betty Dodson the “mother of masturbation” calls it: a love affair with yourself!)

I want YOU to have pleasure and enjoyment in your life, to know what turns you on (and what turns you off), and to be able to make choices based on a starting point of feeling good in your own skin (rather than starting from feelings of shame, disgust, despair, judgement etc.).

I want YOU to celebrate being a juicy, sensual, sexual, confident, joyous woman.

It is all possible.

How are you feeling?

Have I whetted your appetite and you want to know more?

Or are you shaking your head and saying “but that’s not me. I don’t believe it is possible. I can never be like that while I look like this.”

Or maybe you’re thinking, “Is that it? I just have to believe in myself? Positive thinking and all that bullsh*t?”

Hmmm…?

Whatever your reaction, if you’re here and you’ve read this far, I strongly suspect that you want some things to be different in your life.

Specifically you want things to be different in your sex life.

You want to be able to throw off your clothes and dance around the bedroom naked, shaking your booty and loving your jiggly bits! Or maybe you’d settle for not flinching every time your lover tries to touch your stomach?

You want to feel confident about swinging from the chandelier without worrying about how you’ll look from that angle! Or maybe you simply want to stop covering yourself up in bed and allow your body to be seen?

What we’re talking about is having sexy body confidence.

Are you asking:

How can I get this thing called sexy body confidence?

I’m glad you asked!

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